Guilt is one of the worst of all negative emotions. The feeling of guilt has been called the fear of success. This fear of success is
totally caused by being brought up with a feeling that one does not deserve good things to happen to us.
It is essential to eliminate destructive self-criticism. Never criticize yourself for anything and never allow anybody else to say anything about you that is destructive or negative. Don't allow negatives about yourself of any kind. The basic rule is this - never say anything about yourself that you do not sincerely desire to be true.
When we accept responsibility, we look to the future and to what we can do, but when we blame, we look to the past and to what cannot be undone or changed. This is very important - responsibility looks forward and blame looks backward.
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